Two Pains in Life

I love books. And I love reading ideas that are relevant to so many areas of life. Here is a particularly powerful thought I read this week.

“There are two pains in life – the pain of discipline, or the pain of regret. You choose.” –Wayne Cordeiro in “Sifted

This is such a true statement about all of life, but can particularly be true when it comes to being healthy.

How often do we default to not eating well or not getting out to exercise only to feel guilty and regretful?

Yes, disciplining ourselves to get healthy is hard and painful, but which pain would you rather endure?

When the Going Gets Tough…

I don’t know if it is the heat or something else, but I have struggled the last couple of weeks to get my workouts started, much less completed. Which then means that it is easier for me to make excuses and not eat the way that I need to be eating. Which then makes it hard for me to get up and workout. And thus begins the ugly vicious cycle. Again.

Last week I wrote something to my Biggest Loser team that I keep coming back to this week as I am struggling.

Now is the time to re-assess your goals and your reasons for wanting to get healthy. You have to want it more than you want (cake, sleep, bread, ice cream, etc.) and you have to be determined to find success. You also have to depend on Christ for strength to say no to your inner 4-year-old that says you deserve (cake, sleep, bread, ice cream, etc.). Food is our sustenance, not a reward, not something we deserve. Make the choice today (and every day) to be healthy.

So that is where I am today. Re-assessing. Reminding myself that I don’t have to give in to my inner 4-year-old. And looking to see if there are adjustments that need to be made to my plan.

How are you coming on your goals today?

20 Ways to Stay Motivated

(I read an article this week about 101 ways to stay motivated to run and I decided to adjust a few of them to encourage my Biggest Loser team, and so I thought I would also share them with you. You can read the original article at the link found below.)

1. CREATE A BLOG (or use something like dailymile.com or myfitnesspal.com) where you post your daily mileage (workout, food choices), then give out the address to your friends and family (accountability partner). Do you really want Aunt Ellen to ask why you skipped your four-miler on Wednesday?

2. RUNNING COMMENTARY “Running is a big question mark that’s there each and every day. It asks you, ‘Are you going to be a wimp, or are you going to be strong today?'” –Peter Maher, two-time Olympic marathoner from Canada (Not just applicable to running – are you going to be a wimp and eat fast food or are you going to be strong and make a healthy dinner?)

3. EVERY MILE YOU RUN (or walk) burns roughly 100 calories. Think of that next six-miler as two slices of pizza.

4. RUNNING COMMENTARY “No one can say, ‘You must not run faster than this or jump higher than that.’ The human spirit is indomitable.” –Sir Roger Bannister, the first man to run a sub-four-minute mile (No one can tell you that you can’t do this!)

5. RUNNING COMMENTARY “The more I run, the more I want to run, and the more I live a life conditioned and influenced and fashioned by my running. And the more I run, the more certain I am that I am heading for my real goal: to become the person I am.” –George Sheehan, M.D., beloved former RW columnist and author of Running & Being (The more you [eat well, exercise] the more you will want to [eat well, exercise].)

6. WEAR A PEDOMETER on your run (walk, throughout the day). Distance sounds more impressive in steps. Some tricked-out sports watches also record steps.

7. BUDDY UP. Not many people can keep up with nine-time University of Colorado all-American Sara Slattery. Luckily, two-time Olympian Shayne Culpepper happens to live down the street. Find your own version of the Olympian next door to run (exercise, eat well) with regularly.

8. HAVE A DAILY GOAL. Scott Jurek, seven-time champion of The Western States 100-Mile Endurance Run, sets goals not just for big races but also for workouts. “Maybe it is a technique goal, maybe a pace goal, maybe a goal of running faster at the end,” he says. (Maybe it’s a goal to move more today than yesterday or eat better today than yesterday.)

9. IT’S NEVER TOO LATE to salvage your New Year’s resolutions. (Or your Biggest Loser goals.)

10. GO EARLY. Two-time Olympian Shayne Culpepper says that rather than putting off a run, she’ll head out even earlier than usual when she’s not in the mood to work out. “If I have that extra cup of coffee or I wait an extra half hour, it becomes too torturous,” she says. (When you don’t feel like it – do it anyway – whether that means getting out and exercising or getting off the couch and making a healthy meal.)

11. PAY YOURSELF. Set a price for attaining a certain weekly mileage (exercise, weight loss) goal. When you hit it, pay up. Keep your mileage money in a jar, and once it accumulates, buy yourself that new running jacket (or whatever it is) you’ve been ogling.

12. TURN THINGS AROUND. “A poor performance is a strong motivator for me,” says elite marathoner Clint Verran. “I can’t wait to prove to myself that I’m a better runner than my last showing.” Verran also says negative comments from his coaches fire him up. “For me, proving somebody wrong is key.” (Prove to that voice in your head that says you can’t do this or it’s too hard that they are wrong!)

13. RUNNING COMMENTARY “Workouts are like brushing my teeth; I don’t think about it, I just do it. The decision has already been made.” –Patti Sue Plumer, U.S. Olympian (You already made the decision to get healthy – now you just do it.)

14. KEEP A LOG. Greg Meyer, former Boston Marathon and Chicago Marathon champ, says his logbook keeps him motivated. “I just can’t stand to look at my log and see a goose egg for the day,” he says. (Writing down or typing in what we do and what we eat is a great motivator!)

15. DON’T EXPECT EVERY DAY TO BE BETTER than the last. Some days will be slower than others, and some days might even hurt a bit. But as long as you’re on the road, it’s a good day. (Keep going – even when it is hard.)

16. YOU’RE NEVER TOO OLD FOR A GOLD STAR, says Sacramento-area running coach Shauna Schultz. Plan your workouts a week in advance, then place a star sticker on the calendar for each day you meet your goal. “Visualizing your progress in this manner is very encouraging,” Schultz says. (Rewarding yourself is always a good thing. Even if it is “just” a gold star.)

17. THINK YOU DON’T HAVE TIME TO RUN (exercise)? You can probably make a list longer than this one of things you’re wasting time on today. Cut one of them out and get the run (exercise) in.

18. BE CREATIVE If the idea of going on your regular four-miler just sinks you further into your recliner, remember that there are other ways to put in some miles–like a pickup game of soccer, flag football, or ultimate Frisbee. A soccer midfielder runs up to six miles in a regulation 90-minute game. (Take a walk or bike ride with your kids, jump on your trampoline, shoot some hoops, get creative!!)

19. TALK ABOUT IT If you have a goal and keep it to yourself, you are less likely to achieve it because no one is cheering you on.

20. CELEBRATE every success, big or small.

(Borrowed and adapted from Runner’s World, 101 Kicks in the Butt; Italics mine)

It All Falls Down

Remember how I was telling you that my June was CRAZY-busy?

Well, guess what happens when CRAZY-busy is done.

CRASH!

My body finally got fed up with my constant running, commitments, exercise, stress, etc., and decided to quit on me.

Saturday I slept late, ran the kids out for a quick, but fun, outing with friends, ran one errand, and then proceeded to take a two-hour nap on the couch and other than forcing myself out for my run-streak run, spent the rest of the day and evening on the couch.

Sunday I woke up feeling nauseated, went back to sleep, moved to my couch when I woke up, cat-napped off-and-on all day, fought nausea, made myself workout anyway (because I couldn’t feel much worse), and went to bed by 9:30.

I didn’t cook all weekend. I ate things like peanut butter and raisins on celery, Pringle’s, pancakes and waffles;  not my typical meal plan.

The collapse was so complete that I was even getting concerned that the ugly depression I have been fighting my way out of over the last few weeks was pulling me back down.

But this is kind of how it is for me. I run, run, run, go, go, go, and then I just can’t go anymore.

I know this about myself, but it still manages to surprise me when it happens.

I wish I was better at scheduling my time so this doesn’t happen, but some things in the schedule are out of my control.

I wish I was better at scheduling in down time so this doesn’t happen, but I am not.

So, in July, I am going to work harder at making down time and saying no to the unnecessary.

Wish me luck!

Do you struggle with any of these issues? How do you deal with them?

Keeping Track

How many times have you set a goal, and even put a time-frame on it, but failed to meet your goal?

When you look back on it, how did your track your progress? Or did you track it at all?

It seems to me that there is a key to meeting goals and that is keeping track of your progress.

When I am working on staying on track with my food and even trying to shed a few pounds, I do much better when  I actually log in to My Fitness Pal after every meal and put in my food. And that means that I am measuring and weighing out portions so I can log accurately, too. It is also good for me to get on the scale almost every day to keep track of where I am. I know that can be discouraging for some people, but it works for me.

When I am working on a specific training goal, I do best when I log in to Daily Mile every day and log my workouts.

It isn’t always easy to put in food that I am not proud of having eaten. It is hard to put in those workouts where I was slower than I wanted to be. But it is important for me to keep track of where I am, in relation to where I am going. Then, when I have a bad food day or a bad workout, I can look back over where I have come from and have motivation to keep moving forward.

I encourage you to find a way to keep track of your progress for the goals that you set for yourself. It will help you bring your goal to completion!

 

Relating Fitness to Newton

Somewhere in our school background we learned about Newton’s laws of motion.

Here’s is what I found on Wikipedia:

Newton’s laws of motion are three physical laws that together laid the foundation for classical mechanics. They describe the relationship between a body and the forces acting upon it, and its motion in response to said forces. They have been expressed in several different ways over nearly three centuries, and can be summarized as follows:

  1. First law: An object at rest remains at rest unless acted upon by a force. An object in motion remains in motion, and at a constant velocity, unless acted upon by a force.
  2. Second law: The acceleration of a body is directly proportional to, and in the same direction as, the net force acting on the body, and inversely proportional to its mass. Thus, F = ma, where F is the net force acting on the object, m is the mass of the object and a is the acceleration of the object.
  3. Third law: When one body exerts a force on a second body, the second body simultaneously exerts a force equal in magnitude and opposite in direction to that of the first body.

The three laws of motion were first compiled by Isaac Newton in his Philosophiæ Naturalis Principia Mathematica (Mathematical Principles of Natural Philosophy), first published in 1687. Newton used them to explain and investigate the motion of many physical objects and systems.

One of my Biggest Loser team members told me this week that the little bit that she has been able to do in the way of exercise has made her want to do more and be more active. Which really is Newton’s first law when you relate it to fitness. When you sit on the couch, you are going to stay on the couch unless a force (motivation, a friend, getting fed up with the status quo) acts and gets you off the couch and moving. Once you start moving, it’s hard to stop because movement encourages more movement. Now, movement will stop if something comes along to derail you, but you don’t have to let it derail you forever. You can be the acting force that gets yourself moving again.

Now, as far as law #2, once you get moving, there will need to be continued forces acting to get you moving more and faster. This is where friends and workout buddies come in. When you have a friend (or more) that is moving with you, they will push you to new places and will accelerate your movement. Take for instance my friends:

  1. Lisa and Anne – These ladies are my running partners. I get out of bed because of them. They push me on my pace, my distance, and my belief of what is possible. I don’t know where I would be without the two of them. Definitely not where I am now. And I for sure wouldn’t have finished Goofy’s 39.3 mile challenge.
  2. Crystal – This one is always looking for something new to do to keep us motivated. I suggested a mile-a-day challenge from Memorial Day to July 4, and she said yes. Then promptly suggested a 90-day Bikini Body Mommy workout which is kicking our butts daily.
  3. Stephanie – My sister keeps me going because she keeps going. She is constantly doing some kind of workout and we compare notes on what our workout schedules are looking like and what we like and dislike about them.

These are a few of the people who are the forces that accelerate my mass.

Law three basically says that when force is exerted on one thing, that thing also exerts force back.

For all the help that these ladies are to me, I hope that I am in turn encouraging and pushing them in new ways, a symbiotic relationship of sorts.

Any of us can decide to put Newton’s first law of motion into motion by getting up and moving, and we can even sustain that for a while on our own. Eventually, laws two and three have to be put into place to keep us moving, because we will get discouraged, have bad days, want to quit, and we need those external forces pushing us just a little bit harder. And they need us pushing back.

If you don’t have people to push you, find some. It’s worth it!

Breaking Through

One of the most beautiful things in the world is the sun breaking through the clouds after a storm.

sun-breaking-through-cloud

And that is what I am feeling like right now.

For anyone who has suffered with depression, you know that there are times that are better and times that are worse. I have been in a pretty bad storm battling this latest round of severe depression. But there seems to be some lifting, some breaking through that is happening these last couple of weeks.

I can explain that just about as well as I can explain why the clouds come in the first place – not at all – but I am so glad to be seeing some light.

I haven’t been able to read. Knitting and crocheting haven’t been bringing me joy. My couch and television have been about as exciting as it gets. Motivation to do anything has been non-existent.

Now though, something is changing. I am not saying it is all better, and who knows how long it will last, but I am getting out of bed with more spring in my step. I have been working on a couple of knit/crochet projects again. I have started a couple of projects at home. I am motivated to workout more and eat better. All of this feels like light breaking through the clouds for me, and I am very grateful for that.

I know some of it is eating better and working out more, but something had to change in me for that to even happen. Some of it is hope. A medical condition I have had forever and known about for 10 years may be contributing and I just started a new treatment that may help. But mostly I believe that I can give the credit for the light breaking through to my Lord. He is faithful. He is healer. He is strength in my weakness. He is in the business of answering prayers. And boy have I been praying for deliverance, relief, and healing.

You may not be battling depression, but maybe you are struggling through something else. Don’t give up praying. Don’t lose hope. Relief will come. Answers will come. It doesn’t come in our timing, but it does come in God’s timing. And praise God for that!

And I Thought I Was In Shape!

This week I started three, count ’em, three new challenges.

  1. The Runner’s World Run Streak – Run (at least) one mile per day from Memorial Day through July 4.
  2. Bikini Body Mommy 90-day challenge. (Find more info here.)
  3. Biggest Loser

Now, I have been running regularly for a number of years now, and very regularly for the last two. I lift twice a week and even walk some. I do some ab work, yoga, and even some general conditioning-type stuff. And I feel pretty good about it. Or I did until Wednesday and Thursday rolled around.

The running is no biggie.

The eating well is not a problem.

This Bikini Body Challenge – holy cow! The workout is high intensity interval training (HIIT). And boy is it!

After one day I kept questioning myself, “I thought I was in shape. How can this workout have been so hard?”

After two days, I could barely walk and stand from a sitting position. And I really thought I was in shape!

It’s not that I am not in shape, it is really that this workout is so different from normal and uses different muscles than I am used to using. And that is a good thing! Because of that I will burn more calories and tone those areas that don’t get as much work.

But in the meantime all I have to say is, “ouch!”

Have you started any new challenges for the summer? Why not try something a little different from your normal? You’ll be glad you did!

 

 

Hiding

I spent this last Sunday morning in one of my favorite places, The LOFT, with some of my favorite people, the Kids Church kids. We did lots of singing, some Bible trivia and some review of the memory verses from the last 9 months.

Can I just brag for a minute?

These kids are AMAZING!!!

Last fall we memorized Ephesians 6:10-18, all about putting on the Armor of God. They still knew it!

This winter we talked about being the light of the world and they spouted off John 1:5 like it was yesterday we learned it.

This spring we spent a few weeks on The Three Trees and memorized John 15:5. They still have it!

And Mrs. Kessinger had re-taught them Who We Are In Christ, a compilation of scriptural truths about who God has made us. They know it.

Then, when we did the Bible trivia, some Old Testament and some New Testament – they didn’t miss a beat! They even knew that Methuselah was the oldest person in the Bible and that we really don’t know that there were three wise men and they could have visited Jesus sometime during his first two years of life!

These kids have hidden and are continually hiding God’s Word in their hearts. They have taken the sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God, and are ready to use it at any time.

I am impressed. I am blessed. I am in awe. And I am proud of them.

They humble me.

Yes, I am older, but that doesn’t mean I shouldn’t be memorizing scripture still. Yes, they are being taught to do that, but I already know it’s value.

Why am I not as good at purposely hiding God’s Word in my heart?

Because it’s hard. Because it takes me more effort to memorize. Because I don’t make the time to do it. I can think of lots of excuses why I am not doing it.

But instead of thinking up excuses, I need to be memorizing.

I have a list of some scriptures that I am going to print out and put up in various places around my house and in my office. Then, as I go about my day, there will be no excuse that I don’t have time. I can read through one and work on memorizing it while I am doing other things. I mean, really, I am an amazing multi-tasker, what’s adding one more thing? 🙂

How about you? Are you doing enough hiding these days? How can you do more?

I Know This

There are certain things I know, but for some reason I don’t always do them.

Things like:

  • Eating well makes me feel better.
  • Exercising every day makes me feel better.
  • Keeping busy makes me feel better.
  • When I feel better, I cook, and thus eat well.
  • When I feel better, I am more motivated to exercise.
  • When I feel better, I am more likely to keep busy.

It’s a good cycle to be doing these things, but in the midst of life, sometimes I forget and instead I eat like crap, only do minimal exercise, and lay around on my couch.

I broke the bad cycle this week and forced myself into the good one.

What a difference a few days makes!

I have had more energy, fewer cravings for unhealthy food, cooked actual healthy meals for my family, enjoyed getting up to exercise, and even got up one morning on my own without meeting anyone!

It is so hard to take that first step into the healthy cycle. And I have been trying for weeks (months?) to get there again only to fail day after day. I don’t know what changed this week. I don’t know why it worked this time and not the previous (million) times. But I am glad I tried just one more time and found some success. I needed that this week.

Now to keep it going…

What healthy cycle do you need to get back into? Are you ready to try again? Go for it!!!